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If you are in immediate danger, call 911. The National Domestic Violence Hotline is 1-800-799-7233 (or text START to 88788).

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Help & hotlines

Free, confidential lines and ways to reach a real human. Choose your country to see local numbers.

United States

  • Emergency

    911

  • National Domestic Violence Hotline

    1-800-799-7233 — or text START to 88788 — thehotline.org

  • 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline

    Call or text 988 — 988lifeline.org

If your country isn't listed, search "[your country] domestic violence helpline" or contact local emergency services.

Finding a therapist

Look for therapists who name narcissistic abuse, trauma-informed therapy, EMDR, complex PTSD, or adult children of narcissists in their specialties. Psychology Today’s directory lets you filter by these.

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